pooberbee (she/her)

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Cake day: June 26th, 2023

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  • Maybe I’m reading into it too much, but the post is speaking to someone who is unable to get married and have children, and it seems like the conclusion is basically cheer up, you’re actually going to love being childless and alone. Maybe someone needs to hear that that’s a valid choice, but it feels like it’s too eager to dismiss the reader’s desires.

    Can we agree at least that “end your bloodline” is a tasteless, unnecessary flourish?


  • I disagree. It’s arguing that women in the past had no choice, and women STILL don’t have a choice, but they should be happy with their lack of agency because it’s a different non-choice. THEN it swings into congratulating the reader for accepting their loveless fate. “End your bloodline” is pure antinatalism.

    God, rhe more I read this fucking thing, the more insidious it feels.


  • Kind of a lousy point, I think, discouraging women from setting personal goals and priorities for themselves because at least they’re not being abused. Maybe the point here is that the patriarchy sucks, but it sounds like a false dichotomy of supporting and engaging with the patriarchy versus bitter loneliness. To me, it invalidates women who desire healthy relationships.