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    3 days ago

    In addition to the other thread descendants, staring with u/jjjalljs@ttrpg.network:

    For all the bitching about capitalism, which basically every country on Earth uses for an economic system

    This is only the case because it was instituted at gunpoint. The exploration, colonization, settlement, expropriation, amassment, warfare, thievery, and conquest of the world’s economy is soaked in blood, laden in exploitation of people, places, and things and destruction of the commons. You’d know that if you were subject to it. Or, if you’d paused to read, ask, or think about it for 5 seconds.

    And, I can’t believe I’m saying this in public, “just because everyone is doing it, that doesn’t make it right.”

    • We can vilify, undermine, and lead smear campaigns against unions under capitalism.
    • We can break, or prevent, unions under capitalism.
    • Our governments can attack us using local, state, provincial, and federal police forces whenever there is a perceived threat to capitalism.

    Everything works fucking horribly with those 2781 billionaire capitalists robbing the world blind while blaming the victims.

    Imagine that.
















  • I’m not going to pretend that I understand your culture, I don’t. But I can understand the “child of immigrants” position in the world that we share. I just started a LOT longer ago.

    And I won’t belabour the point. I’ll sum up.

    They moved here because of what THEY wanted. They also want you to be eternally grateful and follow their example. Except, you are a person, too. So, if they can’t see how glorious you can be, they can either watch you struggle with cognitive dissonance induced depression forever or they can let you grow, explore and find what you’re great at.

    For the record, I needed a clean break from my dad to be able to rebuild my life. He was the role in my life that was toxic in the same way you describe your mom. That was in 2005. Incidentally, part of my story also had me leave North America for over a decade. I spent some time in Korea and China while I was away.


  • Value is a loaded term here.

    If, as I assume, she means “economic” value — in a twisted, Judeo-Christian, colonialist, capitalist, explotative system — then, sure, value is assigned to money and only the top 0.001% of earners “have value”. Bully to the 99.999% of people on Earth who spend their lives delivering that value to the top. I hazard the guess your mom is one of those people.

    Also, loaded into that term, if she has among her moral values those the western, chauvinistic, Biblical moral set, I might be inclined to question whether she lives up to her own values of charity, humility, and acceptance.

    What everyone has is an “intrinsic” value; a unique set of experiences and gifts that has never existed before in the universe and never will again. We are here to delight in each other’s presence and potential. This doesn’t do much for the bottom line… until it does.

    Collaboration on shared goals, building sustainable practices, and ensuring plenty for all are among humanity’s highest intrinsic, economic, and moral functions. Previously, I said that the values system your mom probably considers correct is twisted; that’s because in this system the highest functions are immense power, immediate profit, and absolute exploitation. These are ignored or invisible to most.

    Your mom’s blindness and/or ignorance is what makes her tragically wrong.