New town, made more friends in person, and have gotten laid more times, with people I met out and about.

But I’ve also made a couple of friends and gotten laid a few times from apps. Worth the $x a month, it’s less than one ticket to a good party or an evening’s worth of drinks at karaoke, and pays off at a similar rate per dollar, just more slowly.

(Unless you’re just looking for mediocre fumbling with someone who only cares about getting their dick off, then apps got ya)

Vichy

Ding ding

Have you ever talked with a woman about her experience working in STEM academia?

45 year old men making gross propositions is not at all unusual. And often those are the people deciding whether you have a professional future.

She probably gets treated more respectfully by her OnlyFans viewers than her co-workers in her PhD program.

Walk Of Shaming that dress.