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Cake day: June 4th, 2025

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  • A lot of the time I think I haven’t been clear enough that I dont want sex, I’m always so confused when it happens. I have ptsd from a rape that almost killed me, now my response to any advances is to freeze up and dissociate

    Anyeay, I’m ace, and I tried dating someone on an ace specific site. We met up at an Airbnb (we lived in different states), and I kept saying that it made me uncomfortable how many men take my playful conversation style and laughter as an invitation to sex. And that under no circumstances did I want that. You can probably guess what happened.

    I haven’t dated since then, because it’s apparently the only way I can be safe. I don’t think all men are like this, and I’m sure a couple would be horrified if they realized I wasn’t consenting.













  • One of my neighbors has a disabled parent that baby sits for them. I get so fucking annoyed when they’ve managed to park in “my” disabled parking spot if I go out for an errand. It’s stupid, and I feel like an asshole for feeling annoyed. There are two disabled spots for my building (roughly 48 units), and I would rather push my walker across the whole complex than park in the other spot, because it “belongs” to another neighbor who has less mobility than I do. We don’t have assigned parking and I kinda hate it lol