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I feel like this could be partly caused by porn? The thing of going ‘hard and fast’ being an exaggeration could be lost on many, leading to a wrong approach to sex.
Regardless of level of porn consumption, being too rough with your own genitals risks sexual dysfunction in the future. However, porn adds an additional level of dysfunction in that it creates unrealistic ideas of what sex should look like, which in turn causes a psychological disconnect between that expectation and the reality.